ABSOLUTELY! I have to check her on that a lot. And I do. She was at the house when she was not supposed to be when she OD'd. I think he has seen it since he was only six, so it seems almost the norm to him. He's OK for now. She can't see them unless their dad allows it, and she has been doing better. It's a lifelong illness. I am so sorry for what you lived with. I can't imagine. At least she's out of the home and has been for a long time. You dealt ith the ups and downs as a child. My next oldest daughter was you. She did everything right, and at the time, I did not realize it but to make up for her older messed up sister. She made me proud. But now she's a mess. I don't know how to help her, and she blames me for so much wrong in her life. She doesn't speak to me right now. Everyone suffers. How do you deal with your trauma? I wish she would get counseling.