Amen! It's all people doing the judging of others instead of looking in the mirror. And, of course, leaving the judging to God. I've been looked down upon by my family since my divorce for over 30 years! The worst thing is how they "felt sorry" for my children (too bad...from a broken home) to the point where my children were not only confused and left to feel less than their cousins but also able to use it against me to get pity!! All insane! I'm writing a piece right now about this and you have backed me up 100%. Thank you. I'm so glad I came across this today.