As sad as it is to say your past experiences will be a blessing for your daughter now that you’ve talked about it. I didn’t have those experiences. I was pretty secure as a teenager and I avoided drugs, alcohol, sex or smoking. I assumed my daughters would be the same as me. I had no past experiences to talk with them about. I was wrong. They had a different upbringing with a father that gave them very little attention. Two out of three had low self esteem and made a mess of their lives with boys and drugs. The “talk” came too late and was ignored. I had nothing to draw on to pass on to them. In their 40s they are still paying for it and I carry a lot of guilt. Your daughters are very fortunate and you turned bad into good with the wisdom you gained from life. It may not be a win- win, since you went through so much, but it’s darn close!.