Been there, done that. More times than I will ever admit. I paid over $1,000 to a dating coach and half as much to another one a few years later. NOTHING. I had professional pictures taken for $300. I've done it all, and I've written about it all. After 8 years, I finally met a man I thought was a perfect fit. But, NOPE. He is on his way out, but it has lasted over 9 months. The longest relationship I've had since my divorce. The runner-up is 4 weeks. Read my stuff.