But, you are still together? I would have remarried mine. We had so many good times before alcohol killed my love. Then, he blows it and proceeds to get DUI #4. Interestingly he was busted at 1 AM in the parking lot of the CVS I saw him at when I first knew he was drinking again, and I told him I knew. That was about a month prior. Like he returned to the scene of the crime. He then told me to leave him alone then emailed me how much he missed me. But he was engaged to someone all that time, and I had no idea. All I can say is he couldn't love her very much. Or love me either.