Claire, You have to change the spelling. Like Alison instead of Allison or Lysa and not Lisa. Then you will swear and kick when all your kids get an ornament but Alison or Lysa because it's spelled WRONG according to the world. I mean if your goal is to not see your kid's actual name on anything. Then, they will grow up never fitting in and being the outcast because no one can find a damn thing with their name on it to give them...including grandma, who will bitch and moan until the cows come home. My mother-in-law called my first child by the wrong name! She didn't like how we turned it around so she did it her way. Now I am curious what your little girl's name is but I understand you not wanting us to know. Then we will start sending you everything in the world, including souvenirs from foreign countries, that have her name on them and you'll have that bonfire in your driveway to get rid of it all!