Corinne above gave me a good idea. I can take healthy snacks when I go to visit. I only see her a few times a month. My daughter does no exercise I know of but she chases a 2-year-old around all day and he is a handful. Plus he's a big boy and she carts him around so she has good arm muscles.

I honestly did not have much junk food around when my kids were young but they went to their dad's and he had garbage food all over.

I refused to buy pop, too.