Correct. He was a traitor and backstabber to a woman he said he loved. Is that love? Nope. Mine did that after begging to get back together after we divorced for his drinking, which helped me cut the cord and him lose, to which he is devastated. I forgave a lot of crap, but that was the last straw. Another woman. FY! I deserve way more than that, and so do all of us.