Dang Misty this is a crazy. Do you feel safe? Is there a way you can speak to her? Don’t do it alone if she wants to meet and if you talk put her on speakerphone with a friend or your husband in the room. Something is off and I wonder if it’s not even her? If she has a partner and they commented on your looks she may be jealous but she found where you live? That’s police report stuff.