Diane....I love it! Once I move to my Life Plan Community and I know I'll be taken care of until I die I am going to tell them all to kiss my butt if they don't like what I say. Geez.... sometimes I wonder if they learned anything at all from me???

But my mom, in the end, was at the mercy of my sister and me so she had to be nice. That would suck for me. We were nice and loved my mom but my kids might not be so good. They never came to see their grandma while she lived in assisted living. At times I wonder if it's because she couldn't give them money anymore. Well, I earned and inherited my money and I'm not bailing them out if they want to be rude.

Sorry....got on my soapbox there!