Everyone felt sorry for his dad while I was dating after our divorc, but we were not seeing each other or even talking at that timed. He kept gettingDUIss, going to jail, losing his driver's license, and generally trying to kill himsel jumping off a ledge in his shop to a concrete floor. And that was all my fault for divorcing him. I broke his heart. They all assumed I was dating all these guy and I was not. One ortwo2 dates, they wanted se; II said no, party over. But I did not discuss it with my kids. Not their business. I did not flaunt i,t either. They never saw me with another guy. Now,Ii believe my son sees his dad with another woma,n and it may feel weird. So now I cannot see my son. He avoids my requests to come visit. He's very defensive of his fathe,r although he calls his father all kinds of names when he talks to me. It's verydisrespectfulu, but I would never tell my ex and hurt his feelings.

By the way, even, exes a sponsor allowed him to blame me for his DUI. Everyone felt sorry for his dad while I was dating after our divorce, but we were not seeing each other or even talking at that time. He kept getting DUIs, going to jail, losing his driver's license, and generally trying to kill himself jumping off a ledge in his shop to a concrete floor. And that was all my fault for divorcing him. I broke his heart. They all assumed I was dating all these guys and I was not. One or 2 dates, they wanted sex, I said no, party over. But I did not discuss it with my kids. Not their business. I did not flaunt it either. They never saw me with another guy. Now, I believe my son sees his dad with another woman, and it may feel weird. So now I cannot see my son. He avoids my requests to come visit. He's very defensive of his father although he calls his father all kinds of names when he talks to me. It's very disrespectful, but I would never tell my ex and hurt his feelings.

By the way, even my exes AA sponsor allowed him to blame me for his DUIs.******** I cannot tell my son the whole story. He jumps down my throat if I ever talk about his dad. Only he can do that.