Exactly. It’s like as soon as you meet there has to be sparks or move to the next one and look for sparks there . . It’s interesting you wrote this when I just became romantic with a guy I’ve known since I was 12. For the past 2 years we have talked off and on and in the past 2 months I’ve been helping him navigate the healthcare system. Then he asked me to dinner and then offered to help me put my Christmas tree up. That night sparks flew. It was crazy. All the time we spent together we both acted so naturally. I believe that’s what clicked that night. Friends first. I’ve never had that.