Finding out I was pregnant at 19 changed my entire life, and not for the better. My parents made me marry my boyfriend and have the baby. I loved that child as much as I possibly could but talk about selfishness? I was 19, married to a guy I did not love, and caring for a baby. My friends all went off to college, dated, partied, chose the husbands they wanted, and most all are still married. My life, on the other hand, is what I consider a mess: two divorces, a child on drugs, and a feeling of insecurity. Forcing a woman to have a baby when she had never had any intention of procreating is just as you say. Immoral and unethical, and unfair to the child.