Funny how tonight for the first time I see what you are saying. This is the first year in 37 that my husband/ex has not helped put up the tree and been here in Xmas. Even though he’s in jail I think he would not have been around anyway seeing as he had a secret fiancé . But then I thought about the nice guy that helped me get my tree up and took me out to dinner later. And I see a future of memories with different circumstances that are going to be fun. Love you Emily and Merry Christmas.