Geez Ruby....what was wrong with that woman? That is terrible to be treated that way and not even know why. I have a feeling there was no good reason. Was there an ex-wife around?

As for your son's girlfriend. I recall mentioning she seemed a little immature, understandably, at her age. Young girls are often told horror stories about mothers-in-laws (like yours). She will come around and see you as the lovely person you are!