Getting his 4th DUI in 7 years is just so sad. I knew him when he was a great guy. He's living with his girlfriend since he got out of jail. She's apparently forgiven him for all the lies he told all of us, especially her, and giving him his wedding ring from me as an engagement ring. (How low can you go?) The kids and I think he hit his head one too many times (he has hit his head HARD many times) and turned into a stranger to all of us. For alcohol. It broke my heart deeply.