H. Elizabeth....THANK YOU. I'm glad to hear from someone that has dealt with so much of this. You are correct. Everyone here is so well intentioned and believe me, I've thought of taking him out myself. But, cooler heads must prevail. I love all the concern and advocacy from my Medium family. It does my heart good. It's not something I chit chat with my friends about. Them with their perfect children and grandchildren. I feel in my heart I'm doing the best I can. However, writing about all this is helping me to see it in a more serious light. My next article is about her suspicious "falls".