Having just found someone I am now wondering if this is all it might be. Chase and conquer. How do you know whats right? How do you tell? I am going to visit this new guy (new to romance, but I've known him since I was 12) at his home in Florida and thinking of taking the 5 love languages book and having him take the test with me. It would be a good subject to discuss before jumping into bed. What do you think?