He is a total stranger to me now. He could control her, and they only saw each other on Sundays, so I understand how she never picked up he was drinking. I brought about a lot of hurt; I realize that. I prayed about it and did what God told me to do right down to taking a witness and who it should be. Thanks for your kindness and support. He was such a good man at one time. Last summer, he decided to self-destruct.