He knew from the beginning I would not tolerate crap. I am a princess, and I told him that. He found out, although what woman in her right mind would want a guy like him? All those years he presented as a great guy. I knew both of his wives, and they were both very classy women. I'm not sure how he hung on to them, but the first one died and the second one left him. He told my brother he realized he enjoyed his freedom. What an ass. My brother called him out and said he was a liar. He wants a mate as much as I do. He will need to cut the excessive alcohol because that kills most all love of any kind. That I know from experience.