He will stick with his girlfriend. She is no challenge. She can take care of him when he gets out of jail with no job, no money, nowhere to live, and no driver's license while being court-ordered to attend IOP. I don't have time for all that babysitting. And he does not love me, no matter what he thought all these years. He just wanted what he couldn't have. She adores him for the cool guy he was years ago, but that guy is long gone. I am thankful for our 31 years together because they were the best years he had to give,....pre alcoholism. I will always love him, though. Thanks for understanding so well.