He won't meet with me. All his DUIs were after upsets with me. He never came out and "blamed" me, but he told me why he got drunk, and it was because of me. He's never acknowledged this "girlfriend" to me, but she told me herself when he was in jail that he was her fiancé. She had his old beat-up wedding band that I put on his finger in 1987 on her fat finger! He's a backstabber and coward, and whether I believe I will always love him somehow, I doubt I could move on with a man with such low integrity now.