Her problem was my ex was going to move into the apartment on the end of the house and help me care for my mom. Super nice of him. But my sister hates him so she said NO. I couldn't argue with her because she had the power to change the trust left to me by my dad. She was POA and had the estate attorney in her pocket. She had all the grandchildren removed from the will. My mom and dad would have flipped out if they knew that. She inherited twice as much as I did. But POA is a tough job at times. She really likes to control money.