Hey Chrissie. This is sad your boys act like that. And so what if he was a mistake? All unplanned pregnancies are mistakes! I had 3 of them. The only child we planned was our son. My 3 girls know they were unplanned. My heart goes out to you hearing this. The value and love of a mother are usually priceless although I've read enough articles on here to see that's not always true.

Live your life and leave them alone or they will just keep hurting you. That's what I've done with my one daughter since she stopped speaking to me (again) last week. I always end up going to her and saying "this is silly we know we love each other" and often she will reluctantly say OK. Not this time. I called her the next day and left her a message saying that and also she was wrong in what she thought I did.

They love to see us beg for their love and forgiveness. Not this time. Focus on the one/ones that love and respect you. I imagine it's a lot of strain on your daughter though.

My heart goes out to you because I know the feeling of frustration and hurt.