Hi Ellen. They are doing really well going to counseling. He has shown me how is guns are locked up and has apologized many times.

They are going on vacation soon and leaving the kids at home. The first in a long time. That will be so hard for her but I told her she needs to spend more quality time with her husband. And I think her kids need a break from her.

I feel bad when an old article gets read and things have changed. I should really write another one. I'm the one who says a tiger doesn't change his stripes so I need to give it more time.

After writing that article I became pretty pro active and he knew it.

That's a bonus of writing for me. It helps me sort out the sense of a situation when I put it on paper. So, I stopped standing by and I was on the alert. I had his 23-year-old daughter on my side and he adores her. She actually talked to him about it.

I believe they are safe.

Thank you for reading and commenting. And for not judging.