Hi Lucy. You are so kind and I appreciate your words so much. I plan to do nothing but give her verbal encouragement and love. I will not go to the nursing home. But I cannot stop my other daughter from sending her money. That is a problem out of my control. It's always something or someone. She finds someone to manipulate and stays on them until they crack. I was that person several times. Today it is her younger sister. I cannot win but I will hold my ground. Fortunately, my grandchildren still love me but she could turn them against me if she really wants to. That would kill me.