Hi Purbita. How old are your parents> Don't they revere their elders in India? I am not in assisted living just yet! But I can move there if I need it and thats the good thing. I am in a 55 and older community with no healthcare or aids. It's just like any community. The Netherlands may not have them. I am young. And I could have 22 years before I'm 90, and that is when my mom passed away. I am settling in here well. It must be hard to not be able to see your parents often. At least they have each other.