Hi Rosy. Yours is the second article I read today that's made me feel terrible about my divorce 5 years ago. My husband just decided to become an alcoholic in 2013 and by 2016 I had it. I told him I was leaving because he would not stop unless I showed him how serious I was. All kinds of horrendous things happened. Like 3 OVI's, accidents, disappearing for days, on and on. My sanity and financial security were at stake. We had to file bankruptcy because he lost his business and we lost our house and everything.

Anyway, I should have stuck by him. I'm a coward and I gave up easily thinking I would find a better life with someone else. But, all I have found are liars, self-centered, and tricky men.

I'm just sick about it today.