How do I tell him I need a break to think things over? I want to be diplomatic, but many women would love to be with him because many do not care. They just want a man. He has money (I am not sure how since he was a pastor and they are not usually rich), a big fancy house, a sports car, and a grand reputation, and he is pretty handsome. He will jump through hoops to do things for me if I ask. Like run to the store and bring me some ice cream-type things.