I admit I was doing fine for six years post-divorce because we had each other off and on. When he took up with a girlfriend, returned all my pictures, and took me off his screensaver, I knew he was serious. Then he came back and I acted as if it had been my fault!! I had a huge change of personality, and I regret it. But his life fell apart the minute he walked away from me. He's out of jail now and living with her. I don't think they are getting married, but if so, she can have him!

BTW, I am going to Florida to see a guy I met a few months ago here in Ohio when he was visiting friends. He's calling me every day and texting me and seems to think we make a great couple. We had that connection the minute our eyes met for the first time. I have hope but not counting my chickens....Fortunately, several friends around here have known him for years so I feel safe. His wife died less than a year ago. We discussed it along with my situation with my ex and decided to give it a go.

I hope all is better for you these days.