I agree. But, the inclusion of my son in every other wedding and the family pictures from all of those with him in them, make me feel he should have been invited for my sake if nothing else. She is in several of his wedding pictures. And, I am a little embarrassed to be around my other siblings whose children were all invited as well as theur spouses who have only been in the family a few years. It's a slap in the face IMO. It will cause me undo stress to be there as if I'm not as good as them. I can't help the way I feel. I thought of every reason I could think of not to invite him, as the only excluded family member, and there just isn't any.