I am 68 and genuinely want to attract a great partner. Soon! I think I want my ex back because he is all there is that might be interested, even though I am constantly told how smart, beautiful, and fun I am. Guys my age look old, and younger guys worry me. I am aging, and I am afraid they will leave me. The "quality" men I have dated all ended up with a terrible flaw of some kind that I could not, and would not, live with. I do get hit on by younger guys and then I don't want to tell them my age.