I am disappointed that so many men my age have ED. My ex had PE last October when we tried to get our marriage back together, and I think it was one of the reasons he became distant and went back to his girlfriend, who says she won't have sex unless she's married to him. Geez, she's 63 and if she knew what my ex was capable of (used to be, at least), she would jump on that! And maybe he only has PE with me. Maybe she doesn't like sex though. Lots of women don't. I think some guys I've gone out with hoped I had no interest in sex, but they can pick up on it right away just by my demeanor. I'm not dating someone for months to find out they have ED and are doing nothing about it. So when you say your wife was the opposite, is that good or bad? We seem to be able to discuss this pretty well. I'm not too shy. I thought once a guy had ED, he always had it.