I am going to remember this one! I am forever floored why anyone cares about another person's activities that don't involve them or even affect them. I was told by a psychologist they do this to make themselves feel good. They are not the "bad guy". Here is someone worse than them. It's a coping mechanism. But most of us are like you and me and we see right through this and the destruction it causes mentally to make someone else's issues your "cause". You know how to handle this well. I will just come out and say, "Why do you care!?" I see that is the wrong approach. Thanks for the valuable education, Lisa.