I am keeping a record of dates and pictures as well. When I get my chance and my daughter gets mad enough to leave, I will have it all recorded with my attorney. She stays because he threatens to take the kids he could care less about. But CPS in our county might just give him the kids because she has no job and a ton of debt left by her dad who was her business partner and suddenly died. It makes a mother sick. And I had been nice to him for way too long thinking it would help her. I hate him now.