I am sure that he is not the right man for me. I was so happy to find a man who loved God. But he is ingrained in his religion, and I have a more Biblical teaching approach to God, one that we have not meshed in that part of our lives together. So that's one of my dealbreakers. Of course, his way is superior to mine because he has all the training behind him. But I know God just as well as he does. He makes no effort to come to my church or even discuss God unless I bring it up. We pray together before every meal, and it's the same prayer every time. That part is not working out, and in the long run, I will not be happy as a Methodist. I have tried many things. I suggested videos but unless I ask, we don't watch them (he owns them). I got a daily devotional for couples. It's on the table in front of the couch where we often sit, but he ignores it unless I pick it up and suggest it. When I talk about God, he seems to tune out. I want to remain nondenominational and enjoy hearing God's Word and not the other ritual type of Sunday service. I have nothing against that, but it's not for me. I should have mentioned this when talking to him about splitting up. I'm afraid he will start coming to church with me occasionally out of duty.