I can see I need to do some catching up on your articles to know what is happening.

In our society, we all grieve differently and it's wrong to judge someone else's grief. I was in a Griefshare group at my church shortly after my mom passed away and I had spent years caring for her.

A woman joined after I had been there a few months. She seemed in her 50's. She sobbed uncontrollably the whole time. Blowing her nose every few minutes. Some of us speak but no one has to. It came around to offering her some comfort and through her sobs, she talked about her parents dying 5 years apart (Not so bad in my eyes). She proceeded to say this happened in 2010, over 10 years ago! (at that time)

No one criticized her. I remember thinking, she really has a grief problem here. After 10 years she is sobbing so intensely over her parents deaths?

But, it was not for me to judge.

Her grief was real and paralyzing for her.

Maybe she was hurried back to work and not given time to grieve and this was the result.