I can think of all kinds of things I might try to ignite his libido. One great one is getting Boudoir pictures taken. My ex JUST gave mine (my gift to him two years before our divorce) back to me after six years of divorce. He thought he had found a girlfriend, but it didn't pan out—his loss. He thought my boudoir pics were bad for him, even though he said they agreed on no physical contact. What the hell kind of relationship is that??? My pics will go to the next guy I fall in love with. He said it haunted him that I looked into the camera as if I was directly looking at him. Ummm...well... you dumbass, I did get them taken for YOU! I found out that pouring love and attention on a man puts them off. They like you better when you keep them guessing and aren't even nice. After wanting to get back together for six years, and I finally agreed, he backed off!! He was getting what he wanted and changed his mind. I gave him too much attention. That meant he'd have to back up his words with actions. He couldn't continue to be the sad martyr that Klara divorced (because he was an alcoholic). I think there's a book called, "Why Men Love Bitches". I'm thinking of studying that!!

Consider getting pics taken. They do an excellent job and airbrush you close to perfection. And be proud of your body!