I did. And for six years after our divorce, he tried to get back together. I was always hesitant, so when he left and ghosted me, after two weeks of asking what was happening, he finally sent me a goodbye text after 35 years. That's what I got. I had always been honest and upfront with him if I had a date and I never dated when he and I came close to reconciliation. He has no integrity, and his pounding the Bible into our kids growing up has turned them all against him. One child said he did everything he taught her not to do. None of them respect him. That includes the grandchildren, too. Plus, he realized he didn't want to be with the woman he left me for. He lost all the way around.