I didn't do anything really bad behind my parents back but stay at a hotel with a bunch of friends and my boyfriend the night of senior prom. Then, without actually having penetrating sex, I ended up pregnant. It ruined all my dreams, and I still cry about it 50 years later. And that child has been a drug addict off and on for the last 28 years. No wonder. I was a child when she was born, not a mother. My dad said, "you have to get married, and then you can get a divorce."..... an excellent Catholic family. My mother asked if my boyfriend knew for sure the baby was his. I was a virgin!