I do not live in a huge city, but the closest big city gives me chills to drive to! However, you have a point, and some friendlier cities are nearby. I won't go online again, although I'm sure my profile is on many dating sites. I went on Match and suddenly appeared on several other sites, but I needed to pay to read any communications. It was horrid how they shared my pictures and my profile. I must have signed for permission?