I don't. I stopped talking about her years ago when I started losing friends that judged me for her behavior. It is pretty bad. Abandoning a husband is one thing but abandoning your 12 and 6 year old children is another. Most all people in my circle have no idea about addiction. Writing here is my only outlet. Having readers read and comment is the bonus. Except for mean ones and I guess they are entitled to their opinions. It's certainly not like I wished for this to happen.