I don’t interfere much in my son in laws raising of the kids. He didn’t sign up to raise 2 kids alone but my daughter left and there he was… until recently I think he was doing a great job. But he’s falling apart as it seems many men do as they age. And I understand. His mother has spoken to him but he’s an alcoholic and his brain is mush. IMO. All these circumstances where I feel so helpless! I can only pray if he doesn’t do it often he’ll be ok.