I found a pair of strappy velvet stilettos at Goodwill and scooped them up for $2. Even though they are too big, I can still have a picture taken with them on. That's another story, but boudoir pics are fun and flattering and boost your self-esteem.

When my ex came back for a while and saw them on the counter in my kitchen, he said, "you can wear those out with me if you want." He is the same height as me, so that I would be towering over him. Not only that, I can't walk in those! We are talking 6" at least. That's how well he doesnt know me. But those stilettos in a picture are sexy! No walking required.