I gave my ex an ultimatum because he kept getting DUIs. Then, I had to carry it out...divorce. He still drinks, and it's been 7 years. We almost got back together last year and it blew up in my face when he found a girlfriend. She is much easier to deal with than me. She doesn't know his history and I'm sure he has not told her. But, if we were meant to stay together we would have had that remarriage and I would be dealing with the DUI he just got. No license for 5 years and probation. I guess I dodged a bullet. I am happy for all you've done to get back on track, Michele. What a beautiful bride you made, too :-)