I had a similar issue with my oldest daughter, however, my parents took her side and it didn't turn out well. Because she needed me and I needed her.

You can read about her. I have several stories about my drug-addicted daughter who is now 48. Now, I am her biggest moral support but I tell it like it is.

She grew to respect me after it was too late.....but, as they say, it's never too late.

She knows I love her.