I hate to think of that saying because we all would be sitting in dread of the payback. I like to believe the unwise things we do, purposely or accidentally, are overshadowed by the abundance of good things we do so God gives us a bye on many things. I'm sorry about your friends but not surprised at your outlook. You are a man who makes the most of his life (that you almost lost last month). I hope you write about your ordeal.