I have a big problem facing the fact I will probably never love again like my first love that lasted....well, it still is. I talk to this man, and he gets it. He is confident he can gain my true love and the longer we see each other, he is right. He's starting to remind me of my dad who I felt was a real man (except when he whacked me that one time!). My kids like him, too. That's a big plus.