I have stopped. I haven't seen her for a long time and haven't spoken to her. I texted her to tell her I was sorry when her dog died a few weeks ago, but I only knew because my sister told me. I had asked my daughter to let me know how her dog was doing, but she completely left me out. She wants my sister to be her mother. I'm serious. She said this. So now she has her, I guess. Another hurtful thing here is my sister could defend me against my daughter, and apparently, she doesn't.