I have to agree. My husband was a long shot to get me. Not bragging but he was a 5 and short and I never went for short guys, had no money, and I never went for guys with no money (I had 3 girls when I met him), And he came from a way different background than me. Low class (sorry, Im really not a snob). Plus, he acted like a jerk who never knew how to date. Then he lightened up after I started dating other guys. But....I chose him over the doctor and the accountant who both thought I was a 10. It was never smooth from the begining starting with my family who thought I was crazy to marry him and told my girls that too and later when we divorced after 29 years and I looked back (always a bad idea) I did wonder WTF was I thinking?? Then, it was too late so I beat myself up pretty regularly over it. But, I did love him, just not a lot of things he did. I still do but not enought to remarry him. But can I find a man now? Nope. Not a 10 anymore!